My Journey with My Brother

My little brother is on the autism spectrum. He comprehends things differently, which can cause social awkwardness. Sometimes, he doesn’t understand sarcasm or irony. I often had to explain the jokes and break down what was said into what was really meant, and eventually he learned to do this on his own.

Managing Sensory Challenges

It is difficult for my brother to stay on task sometimes because of sensory problems. I taught him to take a break and relax by meditating, taking a walk, or splashing water on his face. Also, I always made sure I had a stress ball or other fidget device with me in case he had a tantrum. To calm him down, it was important to apply pressure through a hug-like hold. This makes him feel safe and grounded.

Creating Structure & Preparing for Change

My brother strongly disliked changes in routine or transitions to new activities because he likes following rules and does not like to be unprepared. Because of this, I helped create a daily schedule and routine with my parents. He learned how to deal with changes in routine and transitions to new activities. I talk to him about upcoming events the day before it happens so he’s mentally prepared. Now, he can prepare for changes on his own.

Lessons Learned

Working with my brother has improved my own communication skills and taught me how to work with differences. Helping him through his outbursts taught me to have a variety of solutions prepared and be ready to handle the unexpected at all times.